- Grief and loss
- Anxiety and stress
- Caregiver support
About Rilda
She centers the conversation on each person's story and strengths. Sessions are conversational and goal-focused so people leave with concrete ideas they can try between meetings. Rilda pays attention to how relationships, work, and culture shape what someone experiences day to day.
Rilda has extensive experience addressing grief and loss in many forms, including hospice and end-of-life counseling. She also routinely supports people with anxiety, depression, sleep problems, caregiver stress, compassion fatigue, and life transitions. Her work includes help with communication, anger, self-esteem, money worries, and questions of life purpose.
Her methods draw from several well-known approaches such as client-centered work, cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and narrative ideas. These tools are used in service of each person’s goals rather than as fixed scripts.
People who reach out can expect a respectful, collaborative tone. Rilda aims to help clients identify practical next steps and to name patterns that keep problems stuck. She encourages steady progress and honors each person’s lived experience.
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Therapeutic approaches
Experience
22+ years
Credentials
Oklahoma
Languages
English
How evidence-based approaches work in online counseling
Client-centered work focuses on the person’s experience, listening closely and following what matters most to them. This approach helps people feel heard and guides decisions about what to try next, whether they are grieving or managing stress.Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behavior that keep problems going and offers clear strategies to change them. CBT is often useful for anxiety, sleep struggles, and mood challenges because it provides practical tools to test and change unhelpful habits.
Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and build steady focus. It can help with anxiety, compassion fatigue, and managing strong emotions during life transitions.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, needs, and preferences. That might mean combining elements from different approaches as therapy progresses.
Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life and to connect across distances. Because formats are not specified here, confirm which session options are currently offered before booking. Many people find remote sessions helpful for maintaining continuity of care during life changes, for shorter check-ins, or when travel is limited.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does this therapist help with?
Common concerns include grief and loss, anxiety, depression, sleep problems, caregiver stress, compassion fatigue, and life transitions. Additional areas include relationship and communication struggles, money worries, and questions about life purpose.
What is the therapy style like?
Sessions are conversational and client-centered, with an emphasis on practical steps and collaboration. The therapist uses a mix of approaches to match what a person needs in the moment.
How much experience does the therapist have?
The therapist has 22 years of clinical experience working with people facing grief, stress, transitions, and related concerns. That background includes long-term work with Third Culture Kids and other multicultural situations.
What credentials and location apply?
The clinician holds an LMFT credential and practices from Oklahoma. The listing records the LMFT credential as provided.
Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?
Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available?
Confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are offered on any given day.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with this therapist?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.